The clitoris is the source of pleasure for many women – the vaginal orgasm does not occur nearly as often as the clitoral orgasm for most. We’ll show you tips and tricks on how to successfully stimulate the clitoris!
Clitoris, C-spot, clit, pleasure pearl…. there are many names for the female sexual organ, which looks small on the outside, but is so significant. There are some massage techniques that can stimulate this area especially intensively. What else you should know about the clitoris, you can read here.
Clitoris or also: C-spot in women
The clitoris forms an “inverted U” which is why it is often called the “C-spot”. It is found at the fold of the labia minora in the upper third of the vagina, so it’s best to use a mirror to look at yourself. The better you know your way around “down there,” the more specifically you can stimulate your clitoris.
What many don’t know: The clitoris can be compared pretty well to the penis, as it is also an erectile tissue. When sexually stimulated, it swells, which makes stimulation easier. Moreover, a massage leads to the discharge of a fluid, which facilitates penetration.
Clitoral massage: what touches lead to climax?
To find out what you like, it is indispensable to lay hands on yourself. The clitoris is a complex organ that has many sensitive nerves, but feels differently depending on the woman. Some like a stronger stimulation than others. Therefore, it is important that you first find out for yourself what feels particularly nice and which touches can lead to a climax.
For the beginning it can help to use some lubricant for the massage. Dry fingertips cause friction, which can feel painful and uncomfortable. Over time, you will become wet all by yourself, due to the secretion that is secreted during arousal.
Massage techniques for the clitoris
With these techniques for stimulating your C-spot, you will come to incredible climaxes – for this, create an athmosphere in which you can let yourself go and take your time trying out different massage techniques.
The classic clit massage
This massage technique is one of the most popular and successful. It is simple but effective: with your ring and index fingers you push your labia apart, with the other hand you rub and massage your clitoris. You can start with two fingers and vary the pressure.
The vagina should always be moist to avoid irritation.
Circular movements
Use your index, middle and ring fingers to form an area. Circle the C-spot with your fingers, being sure to include the labia as well. The circular motion moves the clitoris back and forth. The pleasure sensation builds so slowly until it becomes an intense climax.
Tapping to climax
In this method, you “tap” your vagina with the flat of your hand. You determine the rhythm, the intensity and also the position of the tapping until you find the technique that you like the most. The clit is stimulated indirectly – which can also be very nice.
Exciting friction
“Clitoral Stimulation-To-Go!” This technique involves rubbing your thighs together firmly, and it works best when you’re sitting down. This way, your clitoris is rubbed and stimulated. For a thrill, this technique can be tried anywhere!
Clitoris massage with the help of sex toys
There is now a gigantic selection of sex toys that are perfectly made to stimulate the clitoris. From the “sucker”, which is supposed to simulate oral stimulation of the partner, to a pressure wave vibrator, which is placed on the mons veneris and gently massages your genital area.
Try out different toys and different materials: How do you like toys with grooves? Does it feel better with silicone or glass toys?
Stimulating the clitoris during sex with a partner
Even during “classic intercourse”, the clitoris should not be neglected if you want to experience ecstatic orgasms during sex. Accordingly, your sex partner should also know and be able to apply the massage techniques mentioned above. Or you can do it yourself.
For an intense stimulation of the clitoris, there are also certain sex positions that pay special attention to the little pearl of pleasure. The use of toys is also desired during lovemaking, if this means extra stimulation for the woman.
